For The First Time In My Life I Truly Know That I Am Not To Blame For Having Been Abused

I’ve been struggling as the adult child of a narcissistic abuser with Dementia. After reading your feature article, “Can narcissistic parents love their children?”, I’ve finally felt the understanding and validation that was not given to me. Thank you. From the depths of whatever soul I have, thank you. I have been wrestling with the idea that I was unlovable for a horrendously long time, and worked for 14 years with 15 therapists, 3 inpatient, 4 outpatient, all to no avail. Your work has provided an extremely poignant and pivotal anchor, one that pushes me to shed the shame and guilt I’ve held onto. You helped me understand it’s not my fault. I appreciate you.